Let Me Introduce Myself
- Dr. William J. De Leo, PhD, LMFT
- I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, retired US Army Colonel, university professor, international speaker and teacher, and author, now a Marriage and Family Life Consultant for the US Military.
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
Plans Change, what now?
It's snowing today. Exciting and dangerous too for me since I love living in the south! Did you know that for very many soldiers in today's Army if they had a date they were authorized to leave the Army, that they could be retained for whatever time the Department of Defense required? Then add to that the reason for the mandatory extension was to go into combat. You had plans, going to college, getting married, moving? What we do when plans are forced to change is a measure of our character. George Bernard Shaw said "there are two great disappointments in life. One is to not get what you want and the other is to get what you want." Life altering changes have impact on our lives; move us in another direction; but it does not mean that our goals have to change. Plans change, we don't have to. What we do when new directions are upon us will alter those directions even more. Be full of grace and committment and flexiblity. They will pay dividens to our lives in the days, months, and years ahead. Dr. D.
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